The Kickass Single Mom: Be Financially Independent, Discover Your Sexiest Self, and Raise Fabulous, Happy Children

Im still on chapter two and had to put the book down and give it a review. That is how good this book is! Im a newly single mother of an infant and it is tough. I been looking at life through the “ugly lenses” (had to drop out of doctoral program and instead enroll in masters because of my child’s father promising to be there for us *dramatic eye roll*) doctorate or masters it is still hard but I just kept holding this grudge and anger that im not where I’m suppose to be at because of him but few pages in i realize I need to kiss that attitude goodbye if I want to get anywhere good in life. I am still capable of thriving and having a good career along with being a great mom. It may take longer and it may be harder but I can get there. This book is amazing, will update once i finish the book.

I've been following Emma Johnson's blog Wealthy Single Mommy since I got separated from my husband a few years ago. I've even been a part of her Facebook group for as long as it's been around. Both are wonderful resources for Single Moms. So I ordered this book, thinking there just couldn't be more information, advice, and guidance then I had already received. Boy, was I wrong! This book has become my go-to reference for all sorts of different trial and tribulations I've encountered as a single mom. Between advice on finances and setting your set up legally for the future, dating advice and how to co-parent, this book has been so helpful. Not only have I been giving it to all the single mothers I know, but I could also see this book being helpful for women and men who are newly engaged or married. Young women who are just starting out life on their own. And anyone else who is unsure of what the future holds for them and wonders what they can do to be more successful in life. Emma won't let you make the same mistakes over and over again nor will she let you be a victim, martyr or someone who makes excuses. She sees through you and calls you out on it. She's the best friend who won't let you date that crappy guy, be a stereotype of a welfare single mom, or let you play the victim of a deadbeat Dad. I believe Emma, and her book, are huge for the feminist movement and I hope you'll take the time to read this book and let go of all the things that have been holding you back from the life you deserve.

This book changed my life. Like, for real. I bought the audio version on Audible and binge-listened to the entire thing in mere days. My jaw was hanging open! It really snapped me out of my victim mentality and the pity party I was starting to spend more and more time attending. I got to the end and literally started listening to the book again from the beginning. Then, I ordered the paperback version because I am very visual and decided that I needed to be able to highlight and bookmark some important passages. So yes, I bought this book twice; it was that much of a game-changer for me. I was spending so much time grieving for what was "lost" and this book helped me reframe my thinking, self-talk, and mindset on being single. I was completely missing the potential of this next exciting and meaningful chapter of my life. I love the no-nonsense, no-victim mentality and all the practical advice on taking care of myself, my children and our future. So inspirational without being preachy!!Audio notes: Emma is a wonderful narrator and you could really hear her own heartbreak and passion for motherhood - I just don't think the book would have been the same with someone else reading it. It was like having a best friend or sister sit you down and tell you like it is, no sugar coating.This is going to be a mandatory gift for every newly single mom I know. Thank you Emma.

I bought this wonderful & informative book to read right before New Years. It arrived two days ago and I finished it last night! What a fantastic book! The Kickass SIngle Mom contained exactly the advise I needed to start the new year powerfully. Emma's voice is like the best friend I never had and always wanted. She is wise, straightforward and hilarious. She "kept it real" and had great research for back up. I chuckled many times throughout the book especially in the dating section. Emma wants Single Moms to KICKASS and shine in all aspects of their lives....that single motherhood isn't a life state to be a victim, to be a martyr and to suffer. Rather, its an extraordinary time for self-reflection, for self-discovery, for creating a life on your own terms (your relationship with your kids, your home life, work, travel, dating), for adventure and for FUN. Emma gives the reader the advise and tools to shift their perspective and to move forward powerfully. I'm so very glad I read this book. I am ready to really shine in 2018! I not only have this book but also her Millionaire Single Moms facebook group to lean on for support when I need extra encouragement and understanding.

My book came clearly used when I purchased brand new. If that’s the case, I should have paid the used price.

I wish this book had been out 6 years ago when I was venturing out into the single mom world as there are a lot of good financial tips for things you need to do at the beginning stages that you might not be thinking about during the height of your emotions.I also love her empowering message throughout the book. Unfortunately sometimes single mom stereotypes do still exist, and Emma does a great job reminding us that we are awesome.A few additions or changes I would like to see are:1. In the chapter regarding the house, if you made the decision to stay because you don’t want a short sale or foreclosure to mar your credit due to the house being upside down, what would be Emma’s advice?2. In regards to the section on dating, she basically has two options for dating - that friends will set you up (can these friends be my friends too?) and online dating (blah).3. Also re: dating...I’m not a fan of the idea of being so open with my kids on my dating life (when I had one). If I found one I liked enough to introduce to them, great, but otherwise it’s really no one else’s business.

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I read this in the first two days I owned it. Very progressive, liberal, positive views from Emma Johnson about casting aside stereotypes of single motherhood and thriving as a "kickass single mom". This book has inspired me to communicate better with my ex for the sake of our kids and to work toward more of my own personal goals while letting go of the all-too-often-sucking-the-life-out-of-me "mom guilt". Her in-depth research of stereotypes and the statistics to disprove them helps drill her points home. The only point I didn't agree with her on is the financial independence: where it is definitely empowering to think of being able to make it without child support, children have TWO parents - BOTH parents should be financially responsible for their well-being, the same way it would be true if both parents were still together. I recommend this book to any single moms who are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, stressed, broke, and could use some "wake up and make some changes to your life" positive advice.

I absolutely love this book. As I worked my way through the beginning it changed my life and my perception of my reality chapter by chapter all the way to the end. It lifted me out of my misery and doubt and gave me hope, inspiration and determination.Emma has a way of describing all the different emotions, and stages of single motherhood (emotions we all have, although our stories are different) from day one of solitude, desperation, anger, loneliness, doubt etc through to success.She allows the readers to doubt as well as rise from the ashes with dignity and grace. She gives you the tools you need to survive and continue. She guides you through with simple steps and exercises, helps you gain control again. It’s well written, well researched and also debunks many of the motherhood myths that we are so caught up in, at least I was. She inspired me, gave me the tools to manage and made me laugh at myself, the world and most importantly she gave me HOPE.The book literally got me out of feeling sorry for myself, desperate, scared and disillusioned to inspired, full of fighting spirit and determent to MAKE IT ON MY OWN!!I keep TKASM next to my workspace to keep reminding me, that I can and I will succeed and my 4 children will be happy and have the most amazing lives!Gratitude and Thanks to Emma Johnson for your very wise words, knowledge.One last thing, all mothers should read this book, not just single mums.Erle Astrup, single mum of four beautiful kids in France.

I stumbled across Emma’s blog days after becoming a single parent became a reality. Emma manages to make you laugh, be inspired, get up again and most importantly makes sure you have a community of positive single moms around you. This book is the best gift any single mom you know will need. I thought I had read and heard it all - but her lasersharp wit and ability to take you along made me discover even more about my own journey. For those outside the US - only a small chapter on college tuition is less relevant for you. A must read.

Listening to this audiobook during my commute felt like traveling with a trusted friend sharing her wise advice and experience with me. Emma had me laughing out loud, nodding my head, and rewinding certain parts to hear them again they were so impactful. Before it was even over I couldn't wait to listen to it again.It's so rare to hear positive and empowering ideas about single motherhood, co-parenting, and dating as a single parent. This book is an absolute must-read for any single mother, whether she's newly single or has been at this game for years. A much-needed perspective and a huge step towards changing individual and societal perceptions on what it means to live life as a single mother, and smashing the limitations we place on single mothers. Read this book and prepare to kick some ass!