The FemDom Experience Paperback – November 6, 2006

Very informative loved it

I AM A PROFESSIONAL DOMINATRIX, AND I BELIEVE EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ THIS BOOK. IT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE, AND HOW YOU VIEW YOUR ROLE AS THE DOMINATE WOMAN YOU WERE MEANT TO BE!

While I appreciate Ms. Sutton's tackling a difficult subject, I have three main concerns: 1) there is significant repitition of thought in this book, almost as if saying something more than once will make it more "true," 2) there are too many grammatical errors which got in the way of my enjoyment of the book, 3) there were times I felt Ms. Sutton made assertions for which no justification was supplied, either social scientific or reports from "real life" folks. All of this turned me off. While I found much of what Ms. Sutton purports interesting, the foregoing issues got in the way of my enjoying the book.

As much as I enjoyed her first book, "Female Domination", it is my opinion that Elise Sutton has exceeded herself with "The FemDom Experience".The book consists of three sections. The first section is dedicated to the professional Dominatrix. Ms Sutton interviews professional Mistresses and the men who frequent their establishments. She also covers the history of the Dominatrix from the `Houses of Discipline' in London in the 1800's to the modern day `Houses of Domination' in places like New York City.The middle section is all about female domination relationships. Some of the topics discussed are: dating, seeking a FemDom partner, building a successful female domination marriage, and the 24/7 FemDom relationship. Sutton's advice and observations are always thoughtful and perceptive. I like how she uses examples of real people to demonstrate concepts and to support her views.The third section is dedicated to FemDom groups. This book is an accolade to some of the older groups that are no longer in existence like the 'Red Queen Society' and the `Orb and Scepter'. This book also promotes some of the newer groups such as `ClubFEM'.The book also contains two Appendixes. The first is a sample of a FemDom Marriage Contract. The second is a resource list much like the one in her first book, only updated to reflect new support groups, new books, new websites and new fetish stores.The book is tremendous. I hope she writes another one.

Elise Sutton takes us back into the world of Female Domination, a world where man's passion makes contact with female sexual power; a world where love and punishment amalgamate to form a unified bond.A good book to me is one which gets you so engrossed that you just forget about the outside world for a couple of hours and that is what this book did to me. The value of Sutton's newest book resides in its ability to probe and explore an often misunderstood expression of human sexuality. Men who believe in female domination find liberation in submission. Sutton reveals the difference between the male fantasy of female domination and a realistic lifestyle of submitting to the female gender."The FemDom Experience" is separated into three sections; the professional experience where a man submits to a Dominatrix; the relationship experience where a man submits to his wife or significant other; and the group experience where a man submits to an assemblage of women in a club or organization. The summation of the three sections is an absorbing journey into the real world of female domination as it is practiced in the United States and Europe.I am impressed with the depth of insight Sutton offers to her research and her involvement in the subject matter. She makes a very clear and convincing argument (even if I was biased to believe it in the first place) that a female-led relationship that includes D&S sexual practices is healthy and advantageous.